Wicked Wednesdays: Breaking The Cage

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This poem is from Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel, it is a wonderful reminder that we are all wild things and perhaps the best way to embrace fertility is not with timers and thermometers – but by getting back to the wilderness and breaking out of the cage.


Wild things in captivity                                                                                                                     while they keep their own purity                                                                                                  won’t breed, they mope, they die.

All men are in captivity                                                                                                                 active with captive activity                                                                                                                and the best won’t breed, though they don’t know why.

The great cage of our domesticity                                                                                                  kills sex in a man, the simplicity                                                                                                        of desire is distorted and twisted awry.

And so, with bitter perversity,                                                                                                    gritting against the great adversity,                                                                                                   the young ones copulate, hate it, and want to cry.

Sex is a state of grace.                                                                                                                             In a cage it can’t take place.                                                                                                                Break the cage then, start in and try.

D. H. Lawrence

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